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2026.06.04 · Views 2,651
I never thought I would actually go through a divorce lawsuit, but experiencing it firsthand, I realized that knowledge is truly power.
I spent a lot of time agonizing over it alone, searching through online communities, before finally consulting with a law firm in Gangnam. I’d like to share a few pieces of practical information I learned during that consultation.
Especially if you have children, there are many things you need to firmly establish to prevent any backlash later on.
Designating parental rights and custody is a given. However, if you don't clearly define the amount and method of child support payments, as well as the detailed schedule for visitation rights—such as how the child will be seen on weekends—from the start, it is highly likely that disputes will arise later.
The most headache-inducing part is property division. I heard that this involves assessing the 'contribution' to the assets accumulated jointly by both parties during the marriage, regardless of who is at fault.
On the other hand, demanding compensation for emotional distress from the spouse at fault—such as for infidelity or verbal abuse—is considered 'alimony for pain and suffering,' so you must approach this completely separately to avoid losing out in court. Even if you think you roughly understand it when reading about it, when you actually face that situation, you might feel completely lost because the other party might siphon off assets.
Don't suffer in silence like I did, staying up until dawn searching on your phone. If you feel you have been wronged, I highly recommend taking your documents to a professional for a review first.
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My husband is refusing to agree to a divorce by mutual consent, so it looks like I'll have to go through with a lawsuit... I don't know any law firms and I'm just wringing my hands in distress ㅠㅠ Could you tell me roughly where the place you went to is located? May I have their contact information?
Sigh, if the other party doesn't cooperate and just holds out, it really turns into a mudslinging match, so I absolutely can't handle it alone ㅠㅠ It's located right in front of Sinsa Station, and the number is 02-6248-5015. If you explain your situation over the phone first, they'll give you a good general guideline.
Thank you for the information ㅠㅠ By any chance, is that a large-scale, major law firm? My biggest concern is that the fees might be too expensive or that the assigned lawyer might change halfway through.
No, that's a boutique law firm with four lawyers! I initially looked into large firms, but I decided against them because I heard they're only large in name and actually dump all the work onto junior lawyers with less experience. But here, the divorce and family law specialist personally handles everything from the initial consultation to document preparation, providing 1:1 close support. I felt reassured throughout the entire process.
Does contacting the number you provided incur a high initial consultation fee? I'm so intimidated, it feels like I'm about to cross the threshold of a courthouse ㅠㅠ
Oh, don't be so scared! My hands used to shake when I first started making calls, but they don't charge extra for initial phone consultations or when they just briefly check the direction after you explain your situation. They're really attentive and listen kindly, so gather your courage and ask them at least once ㅠㅠ Cheer up!